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MEMBER
Become a member of SAN
Who should join?
If you are person who stutters and you haven’t joined the
Stuttering Association of Nigeria, you don’t know what you
are missing, after all the membership is free.
Here will be a group of people who in one sense already know and
understand you. SAN is open to anybody e.g parents of stutterers,
friends of stutterers, relatives of stutterers and speech pathologists
or just someone wanting to know and understand more about stuttering.
You will never get a greater opportunity than to join SAN
SAN
members include:
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People Who Stutter, parents of stuttering children,Speech Language
Therapist's and others who support SAN purposes.
- The
right to vote and to be elected to SAN board and committies
is granted to PWS and Parents to stuttering children.
- SAN
board and committies includes Speech Language Pathologist"s
nominated by the elected members.
Therfore, all SAN activities are done in cooperation of PWS
and Speech Language Therapist's.
Benefits
to you:
1. The opportunity to help people who
stutter and increase public understand.
2. www.stutteringnigeria.org - The
voice of stuttering in Nigeria.
Information on new therapies, alternative
approaches to therapy, personal stories and practical tips on
living with stuttering.
3. Telephone support scheme.
4. Social events, new friends.
5. SAN national conferences.
6. Information on international conferences.
7. Self help groups around the country.
Benefits
to us:
1. Increased membership adds more weight
to our voice.
2. Helps us better advocate for the
rights of those that stutter.
3. Helps us strengthen our case in
funding applications.
Your membership
adds weight to our voice
Your legacy to stuttering
SAN has been able to invest in the
development of new projects. However, our finances remain very
tight. Would you be very interested in supporting SAN through
making a legacy?
It would certainly help your loved
ones to make a will and please remember the SAN.
Your donation however small, would continue our work and go to
help others in the future. For larger donations, we could perpetuate
your name in a project you supported.
SELF HELP
What is the relationship between
stuttering and anxiety?
It is important to say that people
who stutter are no different to those who do not stutter in terms
of their personality or mood (Craig, 2000). We have looked long
and hard, but we now believe that stuttering does not result from
a special type of personality, nor is it caused by being depressed.
Nonetheless, evidence suggests that people who stutter have higher
levels of social anxiety (Craig 2000), in which the anxiety is
more likely a consequence rather than a cause of stuttering. Survey
research has found that the majority of people who stutter believe
their anxiety plays an important part in their stuttering. Most
clinicians who treat stuttering also believe anxiety to be an
important component of the problem.
The problem is that research has almost always studied people
who have been referred for treatment, and this we believe is a
biased sample. It makes sense that those who stutter more severely
would have higher levels of anxiety and therefore would seek out
treatment more easily.
Are all people who stutter socially anxious?
From our research (see box) the majority (around 60%) had never`sought
treatment fro reasons such as: “I am not severe enough”
and: “I did not realize I stuttered”. Surprisingly,
the total stuttering sample was shown to have higher chronic anxiety
levels that people who do not stutter. This suggests that people
who stutter (PWS) are at risk of developing higher levels of anxiety
than expected, regardless of their severity of stuttering or whether
they have had treatment or not. It is important to note that those
who had received therapy at some time in their life were more
anxious than those who had never sought treatment. We also found
that chronic anxiety levels increased with age, at least up to
mid-adulthood. Another quite important finding was that women
who stutter had consistently higher anxiety scores than men who
stutter, right across the lifespan. This information is crucial
for improving the management and treatment of stuttering.
Implications for seeking help
for stuttering
Clinicians who treat stuttering should
be aware that people presenting for help with managing their stuttering
are likely to have chronically raised levels of social anxiety.
People who stutter should also be aware of the risks of not managing
their own anxiety levels and should seek appropriate help in managing
their fears and worries. It is important that the treatment is
designed to manage anxiety. It is clear that effective treatment
that reduces stuttering symptoms will also reduce fear and anxieties
as a result of the decreased stuttering. However, given the raised
levels of anxiety in people who stutter, it may be wise to seek
additional treatment.
Very effective programs have been designed and developed (available
as a manual) by the first author to develop self-control over
anxiety (Craig, 1998)
These include:
Learning how to control physical anxiety and tension associated
with speech fears (towards relaxed speech).
Learning how to control anxious thoughts
and feelings associated with stuttering.
(Changing the way you think and talk)
Learning how to control anxiety through
strengthening social skills and assertiveness (becoming a socially
skilled speaker)
Conclusion
It is becoming clearer that a fluency disorder like stuttering,
if it persists past the teenage years, is associated with higher
levels of social anxiety. This is especially the case if their
stuttering is severe enough to warrant therapy. It is also especially
true for women. We should not be surprised that stuttering can
cause distress serious enough to create social fears and anxieties.
People who stutter should also be more willing to seek additional
help that can offer professional guidance in helping them to control
their anxiety.
The future is in their hands.
This piece was written by professor Ashley Craig and Dr Yvonne
Tran, Department of Health Sciences, University of Technology,
Sydney and culled from Speaking Out Magazine.
How you can
help your child with his talking:
Here are some ways you can help your
child with his talking. You may find some of them easy, others
will need practice.
Remember: There is no evidence that
parents cause stuttering. Don’t blame yourself!
1. About three times a week, give your
child your full attention for five minutes, his “special
time” when he is not struggling to talk over others. When
it is his turn to speak, give him time to finish what he is saying
without interrupting.
Spend time together - follow his lead
by playing with what he wants to play with and talking about what
he wants to talk about. During this time, encourage him by praising
him for what he is good at (eg: “you are good at puzzles”
or “ That was nice thing to do”). Make things relaxed
rather than rushed).
2. Slowing down your own speech when
you talk to your child will make it easier for him to follow what
you are saying and help him feel less rushed. This can be more
helpful than telling a child to slow down, start again or take
a deep breath.
3. It may help to pause for one second
before you answer him or ask a question. This slow, less hurried
way of speaking gives your child time before answering.
4. Show your child you are interested
in what he says, not how he says it. Look at him when he talks,
then he knows you are listening and and won’t rush his speech.
If you are busy doing something and
cannot st5op, tell your child that, although you are busy, you
are still listening, or explaining why you cannot stop, but give
him your full attention later.
5. Use the same sort of sentences your
child does – keep them short and simple.
Meanwhile do not expect changes in
your child’s speech straight away, but practicing these
suggestions can help your child to talk more easily.
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SOME MEMBERS BIOGRAPHY
Akintunde Adeyemi
obtained his primary school leaving certificate in the year 1994
from Tinumola nursery and primary school Osogbo Osun State Nigeria.He
later proceeded
to Kidvarc high school Iree Osun State Nigeria in 1995 where he
moved over to Federal Government College Ikirun Osun State Nigeria
in 1996.He obtained his West African Examination Council Certificate[WAEC]
and General Certificate Examination[GCE] in the year 2001 from
F.G.C.Ikirun Osun State Nigeria. From there he proceeded to Osun
State Polytechnic Iree, where he obtained his OND Certificate
in Accounting[2004].
Presently his an undergraduate at Bowen
University[Of The Nigerian Baptist Convection]Iwo, Osun State
Nigeria studying Economics.
Akintunde Adeyemi is no stranger to
the problems of Stuttering after Stuttering from childhood into
adulthood.He his currently the editor of the SAN's monthly news
letter''Stuttering in Nigeria''.He knows from personal experience
what the person who stutters is up against.His introduction to
Stuttering corrective procedures came at the age of 17 under the
direction of Mr Olatidoye Akingbade and Mr Edward D. Abiodun who
at that time acted to be his schoolmates local fluency specialist.A
few years later he worked with many different stutterers all over
Nigeria including Ivory Coast Republic of Cote D'viore to promote
the effective of Stuttering awareness in his country Nigeria [in
the year 2003].
Akintunde Adeyemi helped start the
Stuttering Association of Nigeria[formely Nigeria Stammering Association]a
non profit charitable organization dedicated to the improved treatment
and prevention of Stuttering in Nigeria in collaboration with
the Speak Clear Association of Cameroun''General Coordinator Mr
Joseph Lukong'' who has been working relentlessly to help Stutterers
all over Africa.
Adeyemi himself is a severe stutterer
and is dedicated to providing practical training so that effective
stuttering treatment can be delivered to all people who stutter
in his country.
Tunde Adediji is a
cousin to the director of SAN and a graduate of Federal Polytechnic
Ede Osun State Nigeria. All he he knows is that some times he
speaks freely and ot other times he gets miserably stuck. Many
times he cried alone about his stuttering and even comteemplated
suicide because his stuttering had crept into all aspects of life,
his stuttering was truly an “iceberg”.
However, with the director of SAN (“Mr Akintunde Adeyemi”)
he was able to manage and control his stuttering successfully,
after attending series of self help group with SAN.
Ibiyemi Fabunmi` was
born in early 80’s, he started stuttering when he was 4
years.
Stuttering is still part of him up till date he got helped throughthe
SAN’s self help group
run by Mr Akintunde Adeyemi. He joined SAN after attending one
of SAN’s self help group. He is happy today that he is no
longer alone with the speech impediment called stuttering because
meeting the members of SAN with different stuttering patterns
gave him a courage that is not a disgrace or an embarrassment
or something to be ashamed of to be a stutterer. His first question
when he met the SAN’s director had to do with whether there
might be a physical cause for his stuttering? He answered that
since no two stutterers stutter alike- yet every stutterer possesses
two strong and incapacitating feelings in common. Fear and Anxiety.
So if fear of stuttering can be reduced, then certainly stuttering
itself can be reduced.
Emeka Chukwura is
a Nigerian born in Great Britain. Emeka is a student of bowen
university
Iwo Osun State Nigeria, studying business Administration is a
close friend with the director SAN as they both attend the same
University. Emeka is someone whose great interest is stuttering
developed when he met Mr Adeyemi at school. He works with him
in prevention of stuttering in children, teens and adults. Emeka
plans to go for a speech therapy training after his school in
order to fulfill his dreams to help stutterers with self confidence
to make a contribution to his fellow brothers and sisters of the
tangled tongue.
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A Story By Jonas
Berinyuy from [SCAC]Cameroun, Africa
One man named Boi was a severe stammerer,
of quick temper, very dangerous at times and acted at times like
an insane person. The state of Boi caused him and his family to
seek treatment. He tried many treatments but there was no change.
The combination of several of these treatments instead rendered
him deaf and unable to speak at all. The last treatment he tried
was a species of herb that he prepared and drank like tea. It
is suspected today that he took an overdose of the treatment.
In summary, stammering disorders have never made any good news
in the Nso land.
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TESTIMONY
Texting messages has saved me a fortune.
Who is happy about this text messaging?
I can hold my hand up and say I definitely am. Now, a quick text
only costs me 15 naira. Before, it would cost me 50 naira just
to say hello. I can now load up my phone and it lasts me anything
from two weeks to a month.
Testimonies
of Some Stuttering Experiences
The toughest years of my life were
my school years. Totally ignored by schoolmates, neglected by
teachers and being incomplete in my parents' eyes, I wondered
why I was on this earth. Nobody listened, nobody cared. Nobody
loved me. Today I know otherwise.
As a teenager, speaking in class, asking a girl out on a date,
trying to talk to a friend on the phone, were not easy for me.
I was so afraid of being laughed at, mocked, or confronted about
my stuttering, I spent all my energy trying to avoid a block.
Most of the time that meant not saying what I wanted to say, not
speaking when I wanted to speak. It is horrible to go through
life feeling like a spectator. All around you, exciting things
are happening; you feel like you are not part of the club, not
part of the world around you. You exist in your own little bubble,
watching life pass you by. You hear a funny story; you want to
add a word or two, but you're afraid it might take too long to
get it out; by the time you do, everyone will have walked away.
One thing that always brings tears in my eyes is when
we introduce ourselves to the group and one of the children says
"Mummy, that lady stutters too.
But the parents have heard some serious things during the day
that worries them. They ask us, stuttering adults, how life is.
How therapy is. How important it is for them to see us stuttering
and having a good life! But some cry. They realize their child
might become one of us: a stuttering adult, with little hope for
fluency.....
I grew up feeling trapped, alone and isolated. I did not meet
another person who stuttered until I was twenty-six years old.
also discovered that I was not alone. Many accomplished actors
stutter: Samuel L. Jackson, Bruce Willis, Austin Pendelton, and
the late Marilyn Monroe, to name a few. James Earl Jones, for
example, not only stuttered as a kid, but was mute from the ages
of ten to fourteen. He went on to win multiple Tony awards, and
now is known throughout the world for his voice! (Darth Vader,
CNN, the Yellow Pages).
I have heard many stories of adults who always wanted to act but
never thought they could because of their stutter. It always breaks
my heart when people allow fear to control their lives and don't
follow their dreams. My favorite poem is by Langston Hughes:
Hold fast to dreams
For if dreams die
Life is a broken-winged bird
That cannot fly
I try to live my life by that poem. I try to never let fear stop
me from doing what I want to do. And with Our Time, I am trying
to pass that on to others who stutter.
We all know about Porky Pig. Last summer's
box office hit, Pearl Harbor, was yet another example of how Hollywood
can contribute to the negative stereotyping of people who stutter.
One of its characters is a person who stutters. The audience goes
wild with laughter every time he blocks. At one point,
he asks a lady to dance. She replies, "Have you always stuttered?"
"Nnnnnno, I only ssssssssstutter wwwwwwwhen I'm nnnnnnnnnervous."
I couldn't believe it. Not only is this movie depicting
a person who stutters as a clown, it is also misinforming the
world about stuttering.
Some partners/friends/family may grow
tired of for example, always ordering at a restaurant or making
relevant phone calls. Is it worth possibly straining relationships
just to avoid stuttering? Stuttering can wreak havoc if you let
it. It can pervade your thoughts and bring about "self- preservation"
mode. Thus, it can eclipse other important aspects of one's life.
If you are fortunate enough to have loving relationships (romantic
or platonic) in your life, it may be worth considering the possible
ramifications of being overly dependent on others just to avoid
stuttering
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